intention

All about the how

All about the how

"Mom, he was mean to me?"

"I just asked him to pass me a toy!"

"Yes, but how did you ask him?"

This theme of "how" seems to be a common thread in multiple areas of my life right now.  From a friend anticipating the end of a work project, but feeling sad and hurt by how the manager is choosing to handle it.  Another friend, starting a new job but who felt grilled and disrespected by a unorganized and lengthy hiring process.

What hat am I wearing now?

What hat am I wearing now?

Last week, I felt stuck.  Stuck and a little overwhelmed.  I hope that revelation doesn't shatter your beliefs that as a coach, I have it all together, all of the time.  Nope.  I'm human and face the same challenges as everyone else.  It was actually a little infuriating because I knew all of the things I needed to do and I had the tools to do it, but I just couldn't shake off the stuck-edness.  So, I called my coach.